Yesterday I was talking to two mates and we suddenly started talking about women, relationships and stuff like that. That's when I mentioned her. Both of them told me that I should have told her about my feelings because when girls know about what we feel, things can change. I thought about it for a few seconds and reached the conclusion that they are right. But is that what I want? Do I want someone to like me just because I like her? Or I want someone to like me because of who I am? You know what I mean? It seems too forced, unatural.


I think things are suposed to happen that way: You start liking someone, you try your best to hang out with her quite frequently, you realize she's the perfect girl for you and vice-versa, and you just click. It seems the script of the perfect romantic film, doesn't it? Well, that's me. Probably one of the last romantic guys on earth...


When you tell her, it appears that you are demanding something back from her: Oh, by the way, do you know I like you? I really, really like you! You're the most amazing girl I've ever known. Now that you know this very simple fact, is it possible for you to like me too? Did you get the point? I'm still not sure this is the way things should work. It's still too confusing...