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My nickname comes from my name, Fernando. I'm from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil and I was born in 78. I'm currently studying and working. I have a big passion for cinema (see the list of films I've seen below), some tv series and rock music in general. In this blog I write mainly about my useless thoughts, likes and dislikes and my pathetic life. Nothing very interesting, really!
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Head messed up

A girl can ask a guy out without having second intentions, can't she?

A girl can insist in inviting this guy out (even when he always tries to find lame excuses for not going) without having second intentions, can't she?

This same girl can ask this same guy out the next day to go somewhere and just do nothing (as she said), without having second intentions, can't she?

And even when the guy keeps finding lame excuses, the girl invites him to her house because some other people would be there, and a little party with him would be fun. Could this all not have a second intention?

Can the same guy ask the same girl out on a random week day, to any given place to do simple things such as spend time together, have a cup of coffe and some ice-cream or chocolate? (the guy not being sure if he has second intentions or not)

Can the same girl give the same lame excuses (exactly the lame excuses the guy gave her previously) and STILL have second intentions? (noticed how I inverted the situation here?)

Can the girl say (joking or not) that the guy lives on her heart on a 3 people chat on msn (being the 2 of them and a common friend the members of the chat) without having second intentions?

This is how messed up my head is at the moment. Comments are apreciated in order to try to unmess it.

Permalink24/04/07, 09:08:58 pm, by Nando Email 5 feedbacks

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: Jan [Visitor] Email · http://www.remembrall.org
You have a real talent to get into this kind of situations, don't you? :)

Not easy figuring this out, but my best guess is that she just wants to be friends. And good friends joke around. Or, maybe, she isnt so sure about her intentions, though that is less likely.
PermalinkPermalink 25/04/07 @ 05:27
Comment from: Juryu [Visitor] Email
Here's how it works... If she can invite him to do nothing, then he can invite her to do nothing. If he can give lame excuses, then she can give lame excuses. If he doesn't know what his intentions are, then she probably doesn't either and he should keep writing about it to keep us entertained ^_^
PermalinkPermalink 26/04/07 @ 00:33
Comment from: Nando [Member] Email · http://www.nando.myacen.com/blog
Damn, instead of making things easier, you guys are making it even harder!! :-/
PermalinkPermalink 26/04/07 @ 07:43
Comment from: Juryu [Visitor] Email
I'm just messing with your mind... In truth, I just think you should go for it because when you think about "what's the worse that can happen?" you see that the worse really isn't that bad at all.
PermalinkPermalink 26/04/07 @ 18:06

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